14 years old of teenagers austral the Huaihe River obviously (alias) did not come home after school, the grandma searchs 3 days not if really, be obliged to appeal in the 4th day policeman. The policeman is received after calling the police, found inside an Internet bar that day obviously, right now he is bending over to sleep before computer. Yesterday, bring reporter of network of evening paper, Anhui newly from public security bureau of the city austral the Huaihe River police station of village of new the Huaihe River learns, took 3 bowls of convenient sides only during the Internet bar obviously, at present experience thing Internet bar already was instructed close down is rectified.
The course that the grandma classeses are over down grandchildren searchs, fear grandchildren gives the shop side accident Xiang Lu to ask again, do not have a message. The 4th day, she is forced to appeal policeman.
Obviously the home huts in home of cropland of the city austral the Huaihe River Ou Tiandong is street, it is the 2 students at the beginning of a middle school of local. 5 years ago, obviously parents divorces, the mother is far marry Sichuan, father often outer work, also do not consider on take care of obviously. Follow grandma life all the time obviously, go to school everyday, classes are over, it is the grandma is received send.
Go up obviously junior high school when one grade, it is I am received everyday send him. Obviously the grandma says, went up first 2 hind, say he was brought up obviously, the demand goes to school by bicycle, oneself bought a bike to him.
However, on April 8 afternoon after school, did not come home obviously, the grandma thinks grandchildren went playing with the classmate, do not have too care about. But after dark, grandchildren still is done not have come back, the grandma has at this moment some confused. Before thinking of to go to school by day, oneself criticized grandchildren because of a bit bagatelle a few, is grandchildren to feel wronged and act rashly ran away from home? The course that the grandma classeses are over down grandchildren is searched, did not see the sign of grandchildren, she fears grandchildren can give what accident on the road that classes are over again, ask to the shop on the side then, say to did not see that day have traffic accident happening. The following day, the 3rd day, the grandma searched two days to still do not have clew continuously again, be forced to appeal in the 4th day policeman.
The policeman is found in the Internet bar he is bending over to sleep before computer when the child, there still is convenient cover bowl on the side. The child tells a people’s police, after parents divorces, he begins be disgusted with to learn.
We receive the analysis after calling the police, child of 14 years old leaves home, probable it is to be in Internet bar or playroom. According to this train of thought, we undertake searching in area under administration, eventually find obviously.
Policeman of police station of village of new the Huaihe River introduces public security bureau of the city austral the Huaihe River, bending over to sleep on the computer desk of the Internet bar at that time obviously. Obviously the grandma sees do not have a thing in safety obviously, so excited that within an inch of cries.
We see there still is convenient cover bowl beside the child at that time, the inquiry is informed, these days, he gets online in the Internet bar play game, bend over tiredly to sleep a little while before computer, took 3 bowls of convenient sides only during the Internet bar. The policeman says.
Tell a people’s police obviously, since parents after leaving other, he produced be disgusted with to learn psychology. First 2 after term begins, he feels study pressure is particularly great, but the grandma cannot help him, make his mood depressed, learned to get online dozen of game. April 8 is Zhou Wu, he was criticized a few by the grandma that day, did not come home after school, run to the Internet bar to get online play game. The result plays game too addiction, let him do not want to come home.
Because do sth without authorization of experience thing Internet bar admits minor to get online, do not register by the regulation, upload online consumer effective identity document, the close down that be instructed is rectified.
I am searching obviously in the process, also searched to the school, listen to a teacher to say, obviously study result drops particularly apparent, ten are discharged in class in the past, fell now more than 30. The grandma says, obviously study result is from first 2 begin to drop, if the teacher does not say, she still does not know. In the meantime, the grandma still is informed from inside the classmate’s mouth, obviously from first 2 after term begins, confuse went up to play network game. The grandma says, she knows grandchildren often classeses are over come home late, but she did not think toward this respect.
Obviously the grandma tells a reporter, the study result that she knows grandchildren drops fierce, want to let grandchildren read ability school in the future, learn a craft.
Express however obviously, he wants to continue to read high school, learn some of literacy knowledge more in the future. It is meddlesome that grandchildren has the urge for improvement, but the grandma does not know how certainly child, how to let child give up drop net yen.
Current, because do sth without authorization of experience thing Internet bar admits minor to get online, do not register by the regulation, upload online consumer effective identity document, police combines relevant section, instruct Internet bar close down to rectify by relevant provision.
The old person says, the old partner is apoplectic lie in bed, need a person to take care of, so her basically simply of grandchildren have a meal, basically be the type that put a sheep to grandchildren certainly.
On April 12, the reporter comes obviously the home sees, in the home very messy, there are a lot of wrinkled dresses on the bed of two bedrooms, shoe also loses this one that one, was to pile up more in the sitting room a lot of sundry. The reporter notices, there is desk in a few houses.
He bends over to write line of business over at ordinary times. The grandma is pointing to a case by sofa to say with the hand. The reporter sees, there is the place of offal at all by the case.
The grandma says, because the old partner is apoplectic lie in bed, need a person to take care of, so she basically has a meal obviously simply. She says, him culture is low, right obviously certainly basically puts ovine type namely.
Parents brought anguish and pressure to the child from different, let the child do not have safe feeling, together with grandma is scanty at certainly, make its seek disengagement in game.
In the light of obviously teenager of this kind of adolescence indulges the phenomenon of network game, policeman of substation of Tian Jiaan of public security bureau of the city austral director of association of mental hygiene of the Anhui province, the Huaihe River piece Long says, because parents brought anguish and pressure to its from different,basically be obviously, the child did not have safe feeling, level of culture of together with grandma is low, scanty to its at certainly, as a result studies result obviously not ideal, society gets online dozen of game, disengagement and psychology are sought to comfort in game.
Piece Long says, child psychology of adolescence is fluctuant change is big, big, the study life that accordingly the parent wants to care the child more and psychological demand, leave different family especially, should let the child although parents leaves other,feel, but did not reduce; parent to still answer to be communicated with the child more to their care, strive for be trusted by the child, become the child to be able to say the good friend of one’s innermost thoughts and feelings.
Piece Long says, if the parent is inextricability this kind of problem, can seek advice from an orgnaization to undertake advisory to professional psychology, comb through professional psychology, discover in time and solve the problem of existence.